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<h3 id="春花"><a href="#春花" class="headerlink" title="春花"></a>春花</h3><p>春花，35岁大龄未婚独居白领女性。<br>诚实拒绝不想去的聚会，摆脱被人利用的处境。<br>诚实接受恋人不爱自己，止损这段浪费青春的关系。<br>诚实面对盲目购来的物品并不能改变自己，停止用购物填补内心空虚。</p>
<h3 id="展藏"><a href="#展藏" class="headerlink" title="展藏"></a>展藏</h3><p>展藏，丧偶独居老匠人。<br>诚实接受自己对老伴的离去，处理老伴的旧物，开始自己的生活。<br>展藏女儿诚实发泄父亲给自己带来的压力，让自己的亲人理解自己的苦处。</p>
<h3 id="泳子"><a href="#泳子" class="headerlink" title="泳子"></a>泳子</h3><p>泳子，住豪宅的爱囤货的独居老人。<br>诚实面对自己囤的东西用不上，以后自己不在了，什么都带不走。<br>诚实接受儿女不在身边，将来要去养老院的事实。</p>
<h3 id="麻实子"><a href="#麻实子" class="headerlink" title="麻实子"></a>麻实子</h3><p>麻实子，丧子后生活麻木的中年妇女。<br>诚实接受儿子已经离去，自己还有丈夫和两个女儿，还要生活。<br>诚实接受自己永远走不出丧子的伤痛，并与有同样遭遇的朋友倾诉情绪。</p>
<h3 id="我的想法"><a href="#我的想法" class="headerlink" title="我的想法"></a>我的想法</h3><p>冲着仪式感和豆瓣高分买了这本书，结果整本书和仪式感毫无关系，“如何把自己的生活活出仪式感？”这个副标题欺骗了我，严重辜负了我的期待和买书的钱。<br>使用故事的方式阐述观点通常是比较好的表达方式，这本书问题在于故事不可信，厌学的中学生能耐心做几个月木鱼？独居老人开始整理生活后，在外工作的子女都陆续回家来看她？毕竟整理是很生活化的东西，不是童话，作者编故事还是得更用心才行。<br>总的来说，这本书对我没啥帮助，一来没满足我想了解仪式感的愿望，二来我本身是个生活得很诚实的人，三来整理的思路远不如断舍离。果然是不能太迷信豆瓣评分，什么都要自己感受才行。</p>
 
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