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<h4 id="面对自己"><a href="#面对自己" class="headerlink" title="面对自己"></a>面对自己</h4><p>你的朋友有缺点，你的父母有缺点，因为这些缺点，你就不爱他们了吗？不，你还是爱他们。那为什么因为自己的缺点，就不爱自己了呢？进一寸有一寸的欢喜，要学会拥抱自己的不完美。</p>
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<h4 id="面对问题"><a href="#面对问题" class="headerlink" title="面对问题"></a>面对问题</h4><p>生命中/所有的问题分两类：一类是你无能为力的，比如出身、身高、长相、雀斑、伤疤、衰老、他人行为和想法等等，随他去吧；另一类是你可以有所作为的，可能会有困难，但是并不是完全做不到，对不对？当你穿过了暴风雨，你就不再是原来那个人。</p>
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<h4 id="面对过程"><a href="#面对过程" class="headerlink" title="面对过程"></a>面对过程</h4><p>战略上可以藐视，战术上绝对要重视，发挥冷系统处理事情。</p>
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<h4 id="面对结果"><a href="#面对结果" class="headerlink" title="面对结果"></a>面对结果</h4><p>如果成功了，一定是因为你的努力和优秀。如果失败了，调整行为方式和环境状况，下次一定会成功。总之，别人能做到的，你一定也可以。</p>
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<h4 id="面对难关"><a href="#面对难关" class="headerlink" title="面对难关"></a>面对难关</h4><p>人生渡难关就像学游泳，当你觉得快要死的时候，只要你扑腾一定死不了。</p>
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<h4 id="面对责任"><a href="#面对责任" class="headerlink" title="面对责任"></a>面对责任</h4><p>当别人为你为大家承担某事而没有任何报酬的时候，如果他办砸了的时候，你也有责任，大家都有责任，不要责怪谁，预防和解决问题才是关键。没有任何幸福快乐是不带任何责任的，责任到来的时候，也意味着好事也将到来，姑娘 ，勇敢点。</p>
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<h4 id="面对健康"><a href="#面对健康" class="headerlink" title="面对健康"></a>面对健康</h4><p>没有任何事情比健康还重要，没有任何食物可以填补内心的空虚，没有任何事情值得熬夜。</p>
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<h4 id="面对陋习"><a href="#面对陋习" class="headerlink" title="面对陋习"></a>面对陋习</h4><p>看不起它，你就压根不会沾染，比如赌博和毒品，你发自内心地厌恶和看不起，你连试都不会试。你不爱刷抖音，不爱玩网游，不爱打牌搓麻将，是因为它们不好玩么？不是的，它们很好玩，你能浅尝辄止并不沉迷，是因为你看不起这些没营养的消遣。如果把这种心态用于扼制贪食和懒惰上面呢？</p>
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<h4 id="面对他人"><a href="#面对他人" class="headerlink" title="面对他人"></a>面对他人</h4><p>人们对你期待10分，你只完成了7分，人们只会想你为什么还有3分没做到。谦虚本质上就是期待值的管理，要学会守拙。同时，也不要对别人要求太高，没人是完美的。</p>
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<h4 id="面对要求"><a href="#面对要求" class="headerlink" title="面对要求"></a>面对要求</h4><p>只要你能够拒绝就没必要生气，而拒绝并不难。</p>
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<h4 id="面对路痴"><a href="#面对路痴" class="headerlink" title="面对路痴"></a>面对路痴</h4><p>对你完全信任的小可爱，要疼爱哦，但对那种认错路的还牛逼哄哄的，就慢悠悠地看着他走向不归路呗。</p>
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<h4 id="面对狡辩"><a href="#面对狡辩" class="headerlink" title="面对狡辩"></a>面对狡辩</h4><p>你怎么想的不重要，你怎么做才重要，你是个什么样的人？由你的行为来定义。“我抽烟喝酒纹身但，但我是个好女孩。”这种傻逼论调留给自欺欺人的那伙人吧。</p>
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