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<p>仪式感就是使某一天与其他日子不同，使某一时刻与其他时刻不同。<br>from《小王子》</p>
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<p>最近一直追求给生活里增加仪式感，这种想法源于一条朋友圈（谢谢朋友的无意点拨），大概解释了为什么人对时间流失的速度感受不一样：做重复的事情，就会感觉时间流失很快；如果做有仪式感的事情，就会感觉时间流失比较慢。小时候老觉得时间慢，而成年后却感觉日子飞快地过，对此我一直很困惑，这条朋友圈点醒了我，原来此时彼时区别就在仪式感。对于一个极其怕死的人来说，我不知道怎么才能确保阳寿绵长，那么，如果能心理上延缓时间流逝，也算是某种意义上的延年益寿吧。<br>本来想找一本书学习下如何增加仪式感，结果并没有找到合适的，那么，我就自己整理吧。</p>
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