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<div class="post-body" itemprop="articleBody"><p>最近吴昕以60块价格转卖了钟汉良送的娃娃，上了微博热搜，大部分人都觉得难以接受，网友们频频说出类似绝交这样的狠话，吓得我赶紧把咸鱼里某些出售记录删掉了。然而对于我能做出这样人神共愤的行为，我反思了一下，我并不感到可耻。</p>
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<h3 id="为什么我不一样？"><a href="#为什么我不一样？" class="headerlink" title="为什么我不一样？"></a>为什么我不一样？</h3><p>作为送礼者，从道理上，东西送给别人，那就不是你的了，别人要怎么处理都是合理的。从感情上，我觉得礼物被使用才能发挥它的意义，如果我的朋友用不上，那么，把它给到需要它的人，这不是件美事么？当朋友想要摆脱我的礼物时，有三种选项，转卖、转送和丢弃。如果她选择丢弃，证明她认为你的礼物不但不适合她，而且毫无价值，不适合任何人使用，完全是个垃圾，这种处理方法才叫人伤心，好吗。而转送比较复杂，有认为给别人更合适的，也有是变相扔垃圾的心态。而转卖是唯一能确定朋友认为我的礼物还是有价值的行为，而且还环保，我的爱还能换一种她喜欢的形式陪伴她，所以，有啥好生气的？<br>作为收礼者，我先说个事吧，高中的时候，同宿舍妹子收到男朋友送的1.6米高的娃娃，起初我有点羡慕，毕竟人家男朋友的爱那么大。不过呢，宿舍床大家了解的，只有1米宽，还要放那么个庞然大物，床上还有被子和枕头，还有什么地方可以放人呀？我这种一米五的矮子勉强能放进去，那些女神标准身高168妹子要怎么办？而且，读书的时候大家没钱，这种娃娃质量不好，还掉毛，呼吸不畅呀，朋友！更别说，夏天的时候，这么个毛茸茸的东西矗立在没空调的宿舍里挡着清爽的自然风，是多么的招人恨了。经历过年幼无知且缺爱的青春期，成年后的我只希望收到实用的礼物，当不实用的礼物成为我的困扰，这也一定不是朋友的初衷。而且，成年人的世界真的太繁杂，简单生活才是王道，断舍离，了解一下。</p>
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<h3 id="为什么大家生气？"><a href="#为什么大家生气？" class="headerlink" title="为什么大家生气？"></a>为什么大家生气？</h3><p>为什么有的人会把别人的礼物收藏好多年？因为送少了！你试试看，一年收到个几十份礼物，还会不会这么珍惜，同时，一年送别人几十个礼物，还会不会介意别人转卖。很显然，钟汉良经常送礼，吴昕也经常收礼，对于转卖这件事情，在意的只有网友而已。<br>当然，毕竟每个人想法不一样，本着不能伤害别人的基本法，转卖也好丢弃也好，要悄咪咪的，吴昕这点，还是傻逼极了。像我的朋友们就不知道我的咸鱼账号，也不知道我有这个博客，yeah~！<br>《断舍离》里面的有句话，“不管东西有多贵，有多稀有，能够按照自己是否需要来判断的人才够强大。”，与大家共勉。</p>
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