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    <div class="post-body" itemprop="articleBody"><p>最近吴昕以60块价格转卖了钟汉良送的娃娃,上了微博热搜,大部分人都觉得难以接受,网友们频频说出类似绝交这样的狠话,吓得我赶紧把咸鱼里某些出售记录删掉了。然而对于我能做出这样人神共愤的行为,我反思了一下,我并不感到可耻。</p>
<h3 id="为什么我不一样?"><a href="#为什么我不一样?" class="headerlink" title="为什么我不一样?"></a>为什么我不一样?</h3><p>作为送礼者,从道理上,东西送给别人,那就不是你的了,别人要怎么处理都是合理的。从感情上,我觉得礼物被使用才能发挥它的意义,如果我的朋友用不上,那么,把它给到需要它的人,这不是件美事么?当朋友想要摆脱我的礼物时,有三种选项,转卖、转送和丢弃。如果她选择丢弃,证明她认为你的礼物不但不适合她,而且毫无价值,不适合任何人使用,完全是个垃圾,这种处理方法才叫人伤心,好吗。而转送比较复杂,有认为给别人更合适的,也有是变相扔垃圾的心态。而转卖是唯一能确定朋友认为我的礼物还是有价值的行为,而且还环保,我的爱还能换一种她喜欢的形式陪伴她,所以,有啥好生气的?<br>作为收礼者,我先说个事吧,高中的时候,同宿舍妹子收到男朋友送的1.6米高的娃娃,起初我有点羡慕,毕竟人家男朋友的爱那么大。不过呢,宿舍床大家了解的,只有1米宽,还要放那么个庞然大物,床上还有被子和枕头,还有什么地方可以放人呀?我这种一米五的矮子勉强能放进去,那些女神标准身高168妹子要怎么办?而且,读书的时候大家没钱,这种娃娃质量不好,还掉毛,呼吸不畅呀,朋友!更别说,夏天的时候,这么个毛茸茸的东西矗立在没空调的宿舍里挡着清爽的自然风,是多么的招人恨了。经历过年幼无知且缺爱的青春期,成年后的我只希望收到实用的礼物,当不实用的礼物成为我的困扰,这也一定不是朋友的初衷。而且,成年人的世界真的太繁杂,简单生活才是王道,断舍离,了解一下。</p>
<h3 id="价格等于价值吗?"><a href="#价格等于价值吗?" class="headerlink" title="价格等于价值吗?"></a>价格等于价值吗?</h3><p>网友们还有一些的点:“友情就值60块?”,“吴昕就这么缺钱?”。我想说吧,就那个破娃娃,又丑又没用,送给我,我都不要。。。是不是会被钟汉良的粉丝打死?哈哈,不怕。我反而费解二手的娃娃60块都有人买,每件东西对每个人的意义真的是不一样。作为公众人物,吴昕把这个娃娃标价600块,我相信都有人下单。<br>我之前有卖过一组收纳盒,标价12块,后来被人拍下,我发货的还在包裹里放了一本收纳相关的书送给买家,这些东西的原件加起来都有100块了,我只卖12块,不是血亏?不是的,那些收纳盒陪了我两年,让我的桌面比之前更整洁,那本书,我看完了也了解到了不一样的思想,这些东西,在我身上已经实现了它们的价值。定一个低的价格,只是希望尽快断舍离而已,赚钱也不是我的目的。更何况,真的缺钱应该卖屁股卖房子吧。那你不缺钱,你别卖呀,就放着不行吗?不行,闲置物品放在家里,它是要占用空间的,空间资源怎么计算?房价呀!我家没有草原,我蜗居深圳,这地的房价,了解一下。小小的空间,与其放个闲置物,不如多放一点点自己,对吧?<br>那娃娃陪了吴昕6年,显然已经完成了它的任务,至于转卖价格多少,大家就别太在意了吧。</p>
<h3 id="为什么大家生气?"><a href="#为什么大家生气?" class="headerlink" title="为什么大家生气?"></a>为什么大家生气?</h3><p>为什么有的人会把别人的礼物收藏好多年?因为送少了!你试试看,一年收到个几十份礼物,还会不会这么珍惜,同时,一年送别人几十个礼物,还会不会介意别人转卖。很显然,钟汉良经常送礼,吴昕也经常收礼,对于转卖这件事情,在意的只有网友而已。<br>当然,毕竟每个人想法不一样,本着不能伤害别人的基本法,转卖也好丢弃也好,要悄咪咪的,吴昕这点,还是傻逼极了。像我的朋友们就不知道我的咸鱼账号,也不知道我有这个博客,yeah~!<br>《断舍离》里面的有句话,“不管东西有多贵,有多稀有,能够按照自己是否需要来判断的人才够强大。”,与大家共勉。</p>
<h3 id="爱意传达了就好"><a href="#爱意传达了就好" class="headerlink" title="爱意传达了就好"></a>爱意传达了就好</h3><p>当我送给朋友的礼物不招待见的时候,我会自省,为什么这么不了解自己的朋友?下次该送什么好?不过呢,我可能没那么了解我的朋友,但是,我还是爱着她们的呀,我希望这份爱是没有任何条件和压力的,如果不喜欢我的礼物,拿去卖掉,换10块钱,买个冰淇淋吃也可以,因为你开心,我也开心。</p>

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